KYA YAHI PYAAR HAIN?

Love....A simple four letter word,but the only word that everyone defines in a different way.We embrace the feeling of 'love' in our own ways and that is the beauty that lies within love. Situations ,experiences, and perspectives of people define love for them.Humans cannot exist without embracing the feeling of love and if you do please contact me asap ,I need a robot to do my assignments.I am certainly not interested diving in deep into this black hole of 'what is love'.My definition of love might not be the same as yours,but what I am interested in, is the way this generation is adapting love.Moulding it at it's limit and removing all the purity out of it,making 'love' just a trivial feeling.

The hook-ups, breakups ,one-night stands,the concept of friends with benefits,online dating have ruined what 'love' stands for.Being in a relationship has become a status symbol rather than a true bond that should exist for the development of the individuals.People just show this drama of 'love' till their needs are satisfied and after that bamm 'hey I don't think this can work, there's no connection now".Connection makes you find yourself,people get mistaken between connection and attachment.Attachment fades away with time, connection stays.

This generation is more about flinging relationships rather than staying in a place and figuring what do we actually get from it.

Lust is the most common feeling for an individual and it is a part of the process of making love,agreed .But 'physicality' is a part of 'love' and not the other way around.You can't characterize 'Falling for someone' for their looks and physical appearances as love.You just like the individual,and let me tell you the difference between liking and loving some

one is quite huge.Loving someone makes you genuinely care for them,you wish for their betterment and do the best you can do,at the same time you are not losing your ownself.

Sometimes you truly love someone and you do not get that back in return.That's totally fine,you can't force the feeling of love on somebody like the typical Bollywood films.But if you are changing yourself In a negative way just for the other individual to love you,then you really need to think about yourself and people who genuinely care for you,who are there for you no matter what happens...

My views on 'love' might sound old school but this is what love stands for..

We are lost in this puzzle of fast paced life ,and have made everything temporary.Living in the moment is what we have learnt and that is lethal in this long run of life.We need to understand that Love is not constrained till relationships and beyond that .Love comes with sacrifices and hardships,along with all the happiness."Pyaar Kiya toh balidan Dena hoga,aur ye balidan Samanya nahi Hain".With that said,I wish that you find love in it's purest form.

"Haaa YAHI PYAAR HAIN........'