Moving on...

Relationships are now a part and parcel of this generation.I believe our atmosphere contains more stories of love and heartbreaks rather than the gases which would otherwise help the humans to live.Everyone's social media feed is cluttered with anonymous love quotes and the typical quotes where everyone feels it's relatable to them.When we address the topic of relationships we either hear the stories about the beautiful journey of 2 partners where they paved their path till the end overcoming all the obstacles or the sad stories where the partners parted their ways.But nobody's talking about what is the exact condition of the partners after they are separated and how they deal with it.To be precise the process of Moving on.....

Now the process of separation can have different reasons.Your partner was going far away from you and you can't resist the distance or the other way around, betrayal,'commitment' problems and many other reasons that ruin the beauty of a relationship.The process of 'moving on' partially depends upon the reason of separation.Here i say 'partially' because the process is much related to your perspective and it's you that has to stand stronger again after experiencing this process.Reason matters only if you are stressing on the same thing again and again.You were in a relationship and it had it's own beauty.It's alright if it didn't work out,but remember a relationship makes you aware with a newer version of yourself.Moving on doesn't always mean forgetting things you were a part of,but the things that affected you once emotionally in a good or bad way,now don't affect you anymore.The process seems simple,but requires a lot of patience and of course the courage to accept things.

Cursing the partner,reason or yourself for the separation is never a way out when you want to move on.The process only gets complicated.Getting a hobby is one thing that you can try when you have to move on.You need to distract your mind because you are going to get bombarded by the memories,the unwanted thoughts in this phase that will be pushing you back in the past.You dedicated a particular span of your life to someone and for some reasons it didn't work out,so it's pretty normal that the memories are going to revolve around your mind.Being emotionally strong and true to your heart,are the things you need in this process.We often forget that there's a probability that a relationship can break no matter how strong it is.Love doesn't allow us to be practical.

Broken hearts have a story,a story that they don't want to believe in.A story that takes them in the past,where they were broken and shattered in pieces.And they need a listening ear to hear that story.Be that listening ear.The major step of 'moving on' is when you open up about things and not get buried in them.Albus Dumberldore ( a character from Harry Potter series) once said that -"Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times,if only one remembers to turn on the light".When you get derailed from the journey of life, remember there is always a ray of hope.A ray of hope that will help you to be bigger,better and stronger.